nok jhok

Namashkar mere dosto asha karti hu apka din aaj acha hi beeta hoga. khair aaj ghar aate hue ek alag hi experience dekhne ko mila..ek ladka aur ladki dikhe metro station par.
 Ladki shayad khafa thi ladke se,ladka mana rha tha use.public dekh rhi thi unhe islie ladki ne avoid krna hi sahi samjha use.ladka fir b laga rha bola 'nahi jaunga mai, jab tak keh nahi deti nahi hu khafa..' kitni achi lagti hai na aisi nok jhok ?ruthne manane ke is silsile me hi to mazaa hai. yeh yaadein hi hoti hain jo samay ke sath reh jati hain,baki batein to insaan bhoolta chala jata hai.
Har rishte me nok jhok hoti hai...bhai ka wo behen ko satana,bacho ka mata pita ko apne piche daudana,girlfriend-boyfriend ki ladaai-kitne pyaare lagte hai na rishtoin me ye nok jhok?par kyo samay k sath yahi nok jhok takraar me badal jate hain?kyo bhai- behen ki nok jhok samay k sath galat roop le lete hain?aaj to samay aisa aa gya hai..jab bhai -behen ka rishta b shayad naam ka reh gya hai.kyo mata-pita ke sath wo nok jhok...nafrat me tabdeel ho jate hain? samay aane par hum unhi mata-pita ko vridha ashram me bhej dete hain?kyo unhi maa-pita ko til til kar marte hain? boyfriend-girlfriend ki wo pyaar bhari nok jhok,samay ke sath kyo ek dusre ki jaan lene par majboor kar dete hain?kya ye rishtey waqt ke sath humare lie ghutan ban jate hain?kya apko nahi lagta ki nok jhok se shuru hui is rishtey ko hum waqt ke sath ek alag hi mukamp par leke chale jate hain?
 kayi logo se puchne par pata chala ki shayad hum kahi na kahi ek dusre ki expectations poori nahi kar pate.par kya rishtey sirf expectations par tike hain?agar aisa hi hai to mera aap logo se yeh sawaal hai ki...humare mata-pita ka kya- jo kayi saalo se bina kisi expectation ke apna rishta nibha rhe hain?aaj ke time par...rishta banana jitna aasan ho gya hai usse kayi zyada aasan ho gya hain usse todna...kyoki humari expectations beech me aa gyi hain?kya sach me aisa hai?hume sochna chaie

emotions

A new morning a new start and a new post.........well what emotions are all about??????well going by d scientific feeling..Emotion is, in everyday speech, a person's state of feeling in the sense of an affect. Scientific discourse has drifted to other meanings and there is no consensus on a definition. Emotion is often intertwined with mood,temperament, personality, disposition, and motivation.

But let's make it a little simpler..right guys!!!emotions hume kisi ki taraf shayad jhukne pe majboor kar deta hai..."kehte hai ki ladkia emotional fattu hoti h"..well i agree to it..but not exactly...being a girl myself i feel we take decisions through our heart and not mind....well girls its high time that we think both from our heart and mind.

.Hali me..hui kisi se meri pehli mulakatt...jankar pehchan kar acha laga...par karib se janne par pta chala...ki wo apni life me kahi na kahi..inhi emotions me fase hue h...puchne par pta chala..ki unke emotions kisi se jude hue hai...strange isn't it!!! kehte ki..ki mere dost meri family hai...mai dusro k samne kitna b fake karlu..in logo k samne nahi kar sakta...well this is true too...aaj ki is duniya me...jab sab kuch fake hai...genuine log bahut kam milte hai...par iska matlab yeh nhi dosto ki..hum apne emotions ko apne  pe haavi hone de...life emotions se  nahi chalti...emotins bas ek part hai..humari life ka...wahi inhi emotins ki chalte hum kisi pe...trust krne lagte hai...aur wahi insaan fir hurt karke b chala jata h....khair hume rulate b wahi log hai jinse hum pyaar karte hai.

par inhi emotions se kuch log bahut hurt hote hain.,kuch logo ko shayad farak b nahi padhta,kuch log iske aadi ho gye hain..aur kuch log apna maksad nikalne k lie shayad yahi karna pasand krte hain.Aise me aap in emotions k chakkar me tabhi pade..agar aap ise jhelne ki himmat rakhte hain..par sochne ki baat to yeh hai..ki hum koshish krke b isse door nhi reh sakte..To mere dosto...emotions me zarur rahe..par unhe apne par havi na hone de..

isi k sath mera ek sawaal aap sabko....wat according to u guys is feel?dont mix it with feelings

relationships

rishtey badal rahe hain mere dostoin ..haalat badal rahe hain...ab sawaal yeh hai ki..y do we need relationships?aaj k is daur me...kitne relationships sach hote hain...kahin na kahin..humare rishte status symbol ban kar reh chuke hain..ab aise me jo sawal mere man me ata hai wo yeh hai ki ..hum kyo kisi ka sath chahte hain..hume boyfriend ya girlfriend kyo chaie? kya wo kewal islie ki hum apni baat kisi se share kar sake? par wo to hum dostoin k sath b kar sakte hain. kya wo islie ki hume koi emotionally sambhal sake? par wo to humare mata-pita b kar sakte hain.par hume koi chaie hota h. aaj k is badalte daur me...shayad hum ek dusre ki hathon ki kathputlia ban kar reh gye hai.realtionships today are mere attraction ..apka relationship tabhi dhang ser chal paega..agar usme thodi b physical attraction complete ho..ab aise me yeh baat aa jati h...ki "feelings aur emotins" me kya difference hain?????feelings shayad apki ek tarike se kaha jae to apki instinct h..jo apko kisi k sath rehne k lie..samjhate hain..wahi emotions wo feelings hain jo hume kahi na kahi kisi raah par kamzor kar jate hain...emotins bhale hi..badal jae..par feelings khatam hone par..rishta nibhana mushkil ho jata h...to ho gye na aap b confuse..rishtoin k in feelings aur emotion me!!!!!!